The key is to start a conversation and keep it open and interesting enough for a woman to see the point in keeping conversation. If something you say or if you open a conversation with something lame and boring, then she won't see the time in it. She will most likely say something polite and walk away, so you need to make sure that you are saying the right things to keep a girl interested. The man key in keeping her interested is to be original, you don't want to say the same pick up line that has been tried on her thousands of times. You don't need to use an exact pick up line either, lots of women find these insulting when men use them. Trying to look what they are not: Often girls make a blunder in their efforts to look more appealing and sexy than they actually are. Sometimes this takes away their natural grace and makes them look artificial. Girls should dress up nicely so that they feel they are looking good. They way girls carry themselves is also an expression of their confidence. They will attract more attention and look even more charming if they look naturally graceful. Seeking advice from immature and inexperienced friends: If girls take frequent advice from their friends and act them out they might create problems for themselves. Other girls may have more experience with guys but each relationship is different requiring a unique approach. Friends cannot coach their friends in a relationship because often there's either an agenda or advice is marred by negative past experiences.